Lifelong connections: stories of older people in Ukraine

Protecting relationships, preventing abuse

Published

2 June 2025

In Ukraine, the war has brought immense challenges for older people – including displacement, loss, and separation from loved ones. Yet even in times of deep uncertainty, many draw strength from the bonds they have built over a lifetime – with grandchildren, close friends, or long-time partners who stand beside them.

In these photos, older people are pictured making a heart gesture with someone they cherish. It’s a simple symbol of connection, care and mutual support – a reminder that meaningful relationships are vital at every stage of life.

Vasyl, 65, with his wife Nadiia and two of their grandchildren

My relationships with my loved ones inspire me to become a better person. I am supported and shaped by the love and trust of my family, which give me strength and direction in life.

My wife is always by my side, especially when I’m unwell. The support of someone close is incredibly important – especially in times like these. And when our grandchildren come to visit, my heart feels warm and peaceful.

Nataliia, 65, with her friend Nadiia

Nadiia is the only person who supports me, because the war has scattered my children and grandchildren around the world. We talk about everything, go on walks together and shop together. Even though my family is far away, my dear friend is here beside me, and that gives me strength.

What I love most about my friend is her sincerity, kindness and deep heart. She knows exactly when I need support and always finds the right words. With her, I can be myself – no masks, no fear of being misunderstood. Her presence brings me confidence, warmth, and calm. She’s not just a friend – she’s part of my heart.

Olena, 69, with her husband Yurii, 71, and their neighbour Pavlo

When we evacuated from Donetsk region because of the war and ended up in a new town, our biggest fear was being left alone, with no support. But life gave us a true friend – our new neighbour, Pavlo.

From the very first days, he became our pillar: he helps, he cares, he’s simply there in the moments that matter. For four years now, we’ve felt that we are not alone. Our relationship with Pavlo has taught us that even in the hardest times, you can find a kindred spirit – among good people.

Halyna, 65, with her grandson Volodymyr

After losing my home, it was my family who helped me find the strength to carry on. Together with my daughters, son-in-law, and grandson, we have walked a difficult path – and now we stick together.

Volodymyr is my guide into the world of technology: he teaches me how to use a laptop and even how to play online games. But most importantly, what I learn from him is sincerity.

Victoriia, 60, and her husband Viktor

My support and strength in life are my beloved husband and our children. Because of the war, we lost our home – but we still have each other. Our life was shattered, yet all these hardships didn’t break our bond. Now we are rebuilding our life together in a new place, and I feel strong because my family is by my side.

Vira, 75, with her grandson

Grandchildren are the continuation of our lives. With them, you dive into fairy tales, and later try to master new technologies, which they patiently explain to us.

These are the joyful moments when you realise your life was not lived in vain – when you feel you are exactly where you’re meant to be, with the people you’re meant to be with. And you’re the one who made it all happen.

Why connection matters

All around the world, older people thrive when they are connected to others – through family, friendship, caregiving or community. These relationships offer more than companionship. They create safety nets that help prevent isolation, neglect and abuse, and ensure older people are seen, heard and supported.

Every year on World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, we are reminded of the importance of protecting older people’s rights and wellbeing.

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